28 August 2017

Be honest....

I'm sat behind my computer on a Monday evening sipping liquorice tea, I guess this is what I do when I want to have a cosy chat and start being one hundred percent honest with everyone.


I have been writing this blog for a little over two years now and I feel like throughout this time I have slowly started showing more of my personality, but there are some little things that have never been mentioned before that might help you all to get to know me better.

So to help me find out exactly what people wanted to know, I asked on Instagram... This is what you all came up with!

Have you had any experiences of fake friends talking behind your back without you knowing?

The answer to that is yes, I think everyone has. When I was friends with a group of girls who were really horrible to me (I think I have talked briefly about this before) things were said behind my back on a daily basis. When I stopped being friends with these girls, I made new friends with some nicer girls, and I am sure its happened with them too. Even though I am so happy with them, I know it probably has, just not in a really mean way. But people will always talk, some people more than other, you just have to ignore it and not let it get on top of you!

What is the hardest thing you've been through?

That's a really hard question... probably having to deal with the way the girls who were really mean to me treated me every day, from the age of four to the age of twelve. It wasn't as big a deal when I was younger because it got to me less, but as I got older they got worse and it got to me more, I could of stopped being friends with them, but its hard when you've been dealing with the same thing for eight years and feel like you have nowhere to go. Eventually I did move friendship groups, about 10 months ago. So probably that, but the thing that has had the biggest affect on my life would probably be my parents splitting up when I was four.

What is your biggest fear?

I have one normal one, which is people close to me dying. And the rest are kind of weird (please don't judge me) but I am scared of not being able to live the life I have always imagined I would. So I'm scared I will never get married, never have kids or not be able to have kids and not being able to live in a house.

What is your biggest dream?

To be happy with my life!

What situations do you feel anxious in?

I feel anxious when I have to talk in class or when I'm in big crowds.

Have you ever talked about someone behind their back, if so how did you feel afterwards?

Like everyone, I have spoken about people behind their back uncountable times. When I say horrible things about people behind their back I always ask myself, why am I saying this? And I don't know. Sometimes its good to let it out if you have a reason to say anything about someone, but if you don't then its best not to, you never know if it could get back to them or not!

6 comments:

  1. Thank you for answering my question,this post was so interesting(I love the idea too!).I don't think your biggest fear is weird at all as it can be quite scary knowing that your future may potentially not go the way you planned x

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    1. Thank you so much! I'm glad I have some reassurance now about my fears! Xx

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  2. I feel like everyone has experienced fake friends and people talking behind their backs, as its especially common in school. It can be hard but as long as you stay true to yourself, nothing can go wrong! xx Nikita

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  3. Thank you for answering my question! This is such a good idea for a post, nice to read something so honest :) xx

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